Introduction Interracial relationships have experienced intense struggles and obstacles in the history of the United States.
Many areas of the country forbade interracial relationships, and punishment included imprisonment and even death (Todd & Mckinney, 1992).
You may very well be enjoying a casual, lively social life with a person who is fun to be around, but with whom you simply don't imagine a future.
This is critical, because once you introduce children, you leave them vulnerable to becoming attached.
According to the Pew Research Center, 12% of new marriages and 6.3% of nuptials in 2013 were interracial.
Though not widely studied, recent research revealed that interracial daters are rated as more attractive than intraracial daters (findings I summarized here).
However, parental support and living in diverse areas seems to provide the best environments for multi-racial children to do well.
Before you take that all-important step, consider this advice for dating with children: A lot of single parents ask, "When should I introduce my kids to the person I'm dating?
" Peter Sheras, a clinical psychologist at the University of Virginia, and the author of "The commitment is the most important piece because, when there's commitment, that becomes obvious to the kids."Being true to yourself and your partner is key.
Not every dating relationship reaches the level of commitment that necessitates including the kids.
Karyn Folan: Hello, I talked to several experts-- social psychologists and others who have studied or worked with the children of interracial unions.
As you might expect, the experiences of these children are as different as the individual kids themselves.